What I am speaking about, and this is a common bad habit I seem to have, is about the attitude that most Siege players have. Not all, to be clear. I won't even say most. But the most vocal of the Siege players, and we all know who they are, have a habit of insulting anyone that disagrees with them or asks for information. You can easily scan the first page of this board and see that attitude pretty easily. Just like you can easily see the same sort of behavior from too many Trammel hating Fel players and too many Fel hating Trammel players.
This is so untrue.
The only time you get attitude from siege players is when people who play on prodo try to make really big changes on how our shard works.
Would you want us coming to your shard and going "HEY DELETE TRAMMEL NOW AND IF YOU DONT AGREE STFU"
hell no, we don't do that, why would you do that to us?
Yes we want new players. We want people to start fresh, and build their way up. Everyone starts out with 100 skillpoints and a newbie dagger, and whatever skill starter pieces you get. You have to die, and make friends, and get help, and work your way up. We have a wonderful company of a guild called NEW, which nearly the entire shard donates to and helps out. Free advice, LRC suits, gear, jewelry, scrolls, and a siege form of limited protection for your first month.
Sure, you are probably gonna still get pk'ed as a new. But more then half of those killers will res you after anyway. You take your grey robe, find a healer, and get some new gear from the new house. BFD!
As far as "siege being for those who like to shear sheep" well, you don't have to do that. Nobody is forcing you to. Though if you want quick money, at 400gold per bolt its not too shabby for something that only requires a pair of scissors and a trip to your local town tailorshop.
Also I don't know why people keep saying ROT is hard. Its really not. The mechanic of it however, slows down game progression enough so you aren't lord whatever, legendary mage your first week here. What ROT is, is time consuming (which we have helped out somewhat now, cutting off half a month's time to build a maxxed character provided you get your maximum gains every day).
We want people to come here but if you can't stand building a char (hell make it EXACTLY like your char on whatever shard) then buy an account or something. There's enough out there.
Personally I left catskills and worked my character here. I still have all my stuff there, and it took me about 3 weeks till I decided to move my valuables to the bank, give stuff away and drop my house on cats to build one here. I've logged on maybe a total of 4 times on cats since that, simply to check my characters and whatnot, and that was 8 months ago.
To proposed changes we don't like, yeah we will fight them. We've been here! I for one would not want another country dictating mine how to run their affairs, and this is only a game, but same principle!
To new people coming to the shard, we offer advice, temporary housing solutions, even new houses or places to put them, gold, gear, and a good time meeting everyone on our wonderful shard. Take a look at our forum and find one post from a new person (where they did not be rude and insulting) where we give attitude