Freelsy, with all respect: Generalized in this fashion, not all of your statements are true. It is a proof for the sincerity of your character that you believe in the good heart of your fellow players. Strangely, I like you somehow

(even though I dont think it is reciprocal). I dont think you are mean, not at all. I think, we annoy each other sometimes. That´s okay.
But I know from their behaviour and their words that
certain players in your team deeply dislike some of us and enjoy it very much to grief them. I said it many times, it is not about killing or even looting and not about different opinions. Its about constant aggression in words and behaviour.
About the Discord: If you have 12 hours a day of which you are at work for 9 and care for your kids/family/friends for 2. And you have 1 h left for some relaxation. Why should you choose to spend this little amount of time with people you know they dislike you and try to ruin your time? Is there any logic behind it? Many of us are just trying to have a good time with friendly folks. Thats why we stick together and do our own thing. As soon as I openly communicate anything, a certain player will show up and ruin my efforts. So, am I anti-social when I prefer to be quiet to avoid aggression?
Oh dear, believe me how much I would love to run public events again and join EM-hunts or other public stuff. But, as Becca stated, we dont feel welcome there… Not at all...