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They love this, and like drax said, they love a man with confidence, and unfortunately most good guys lack in this area. A good guy lacks the confidence, so he feels he needs to be really nice to compensate for his lack of good looks, money, or whatever. These are only a few reasons why some men don't have confidence in themselves. The man with the money, good looks wins almost everytime.
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Now hold on... I don't buy into that one bit... sure maybe for a lot it could be true but not for me or anyone I know.
Most guys lack confidence because they aren't comfortable with themselves. They listen to the advice of others instead of the advice given within themselves. A guy who's confident... is sure of himself, what he can do and what he can't do... because he KNOWS himself and knows what he can and can't do. You define who you are in this world... who you come off as to other people and who you come off as to yourself.
People who see themselves as pathetic, sorry ass losers... usually are just that... why? Because that's what they've determined as all they can do. I can flip almost anything on anyone and make it seem as if I'm the cool one no matter what the [censored] it is I'm doing. I do this by being sure of myself... I'll rock a superman t-shirt to class and no one will say [censored] to me... but you get poindexter to do it... and everyone clowns him... because people don't see the shirt... they see the person wearing it.
In highschool... your supposed to learn social skills. The educational curriculum is so stupid, that it's real purpose is overshadowed by this real and important life lesson everyone needs to learn. That's why kids today go through all four years of HS hating it... wishing they were anywhere else... shooting up their own school and just doing plain ole [censored]'d up [censored]. They never learned social skills. Everyone has a place in this world... I'm a [censored]'n geek in disguise. I took AP courses throughout highschool, dual enrolled my senior year, played videogames, read books, drew artwork, played sports, had so many girlfriends I can't count, friends and popularity and all of it was a product of how I viewed and still do view myself... and that is capable of being anything I want to be.
Everyones capable of this... as kids everyone learns from the home who they are... when they go to school for the first time and see who everyone else that is just like them may not be just like them... they get scared. I know I was... I thought I was the [censored] wearing a ninja turtle costume for Halloween in 1st grade... until the other kids didn't share my thoughts... but what I learned from that was their reactions to me AFTER that... were all based on who I was percieved as after that... and you can guess, I still thought I was the [censored]... and eventually so did everyone else.
If you can't even understand yourself... how are the people who don't know you going to?
Well... to make it short... they're not.
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In conclusion, there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy, just don't over do it. if you make things to easy for her, she will grow bored of you, and in the end you WILL lose her. This has been a life learning experience for me, and this is what I have learned from my own experience.
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No, [censored] that. If your a nice guy... and LIKE being a nice guy... don't EVER change. [censored] these waffles. Women are scandelous and for the most part don't know what they got until its gone. I'm prime choice beef lol... about to have a degree in Chemistry and one in Biochemistry... no STD's... no kids... I'm athletic, never get sick, I'm good looking, I'm creative, spontaneous, engaging and sincere... and I'm ALWAYS looking out and nice to the people I consider my friends and family. I could have ANY girl I want... quite literally and you know what? They'd be DAMN [censored] lucky to have a guy like me. I've never hit a girl... told a girl what to do... what to think... how to act... how to dress... infact I've never told a girl anything about themselves that they hadn't already made real... themself. That's why when I see a girl who just got her hair done... I say it looks good. When a girl gets her nails done... I say it looks nice. When a girl cooks me dinner I say thank you and love whatever she cooked for me... because when someone does something... whether it be for themselves or for you... its telling you a bit about who they are... and that's the only important thing you need to pay attention to when dealing with anyone you want to deal with.
So when a girl [censored] on you... its telling you a lot about exactly who this person REALLY is...
and that's a piece of <insert what you think I was gonna say here>
Good day
PS. The hardest thing a guy will ever have to learn... is how to make a woman feel like a woman... but you gotta be a man first... cause boys just can't do what men can.