That's an argument I can at least agree with, though I don't think it's right to extend it quite as far as you did Giggles.
"So what do I get for the holidays? Nada... zip... ziltch. I do not feel that is fair. And no its not because I feel I am entitled more than anyone else. Its because I feel that any game that provides ongoing content should make that content also available to the people like me who can't really play."
Yes, now I would argue and agree that gifts are "ongoing content". There was a time when gifts were a fun quickie by the devs, and I wouldn't have said so, but these days, apparently gifts take serious dev time to implement, somehow, and so they're getting skipped.
But I think it stretches the argument a bit too far to say that then it's somehow not fair if people can't then log in to collect gifts.
Is it a little annoying that SW crystals, keys, and similar things time out, or that you have to have multiple pre-reqs to do Shadowguard, Exodus, Medusa, etc - and thus, it's hard for smaller shards to do "pickup" events? Yes.
But those are things that can take 1+ hours to do. Logging in to collect a character's gift takes what, 30 seconds? Even clickies, those can be done in under a minute per character. Is it annoying and time consuming? Sure - but you get out what you put in.
Christmas 2013 and 2014, I handled 22 or so accounts, with 7 chars on every shard. It took significant amounts of time to simply log in and transfer around all the boxes. But I really liked the boxes, so it was worth it to me. This last year, the chances for rare boxes were significantly lower, money's tighter, and I had less time - so I only did 6 or so accounts.
Making content relatively available is important, I agree. The Slim's mempo that's essentially unobtainably rare, or keys with timers, these make it harder, not easier, for people to play together. But taking it to the extreme of arguing against the giving of gifts, because even expecting you
to log in at all is somehow unfair "to the people like me who can't really play"... that's kind of like asking for UO to simply give you the "You Win. Game Over" screen immediately after installation. ...or should it just give you that screen right when you start the install? Literally, actually asking you just to log in to get an item is asking too much?