OT: Question for the lovers (preferably ladies).

[Katharine]

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...her winning the super jackpot in a lottery

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LOL I mentioned this thread to my wife and she said she would take me back if I won the lottery....Then when I got all the money she would divorce me and take half......

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Well now she's just being business savvy there! ..

 

[Mandolin]

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LOL I mentioned this thread to my wife and she said she would take me back if I won the lottery....Then when I got all the money she would divorce me and take half......

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Hehehe.. that reminds me of a friend of mine. She used to date men for no more than 2 years and then dump them cause things were getting "too serious" for her. She was a classic gold digger.. dating them based on what kind of car they drove, etc.

Anyways.. she met one guy who she later found out didn't have any money and was over extended on his credit. She dumped him and the following week he hit the state lottery.

If that didn't frustrate her enough.. the next guy she dated told her to take a walk cause she requested that he allow her to do a credit check on him. He hit the jackpot on a megaslots machine that weekend at a local casino for 11 million. *laughs*

 

[Guest]

well dang, isnt she a sweetheart, to only take half of the lottery if ya won while filing for divorce !

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HEHE I had power of attorney over our mom and when she passed away hardly anything was left in inheritance cuz the nursing home got it all. But my dork of a brother wasnt much help for me over the years of my having to tend to every detail of "our" mom in the nursing home, nor the final arrangements.

I always teased him if he didnt help being the lil brother brat that he can be ..I would keep his 1950s lionnel train set and ALL the inheritance ! HAHA
My mom passed last April and I made baby brother wait MONTHS for his half of the money that was left. He joked and said ...YOU were really making me nervous I know I behaved like a dkhead but dang yu actually gave me half you are such a sweet sis... I said "yeh as far as YOU know yu got half.... ! " HAHA But yeh he did get 50% of what little was left.

I kept his full Lionnel fricken train set, though $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ mint condition. haha momma didnt raise no foo ! HAHA I label it ..finders fee !

 

[PercevalWE]

Go to counseling with a psychologist and hope for the best. Its a strong effort and they can help put your relationship back on track.

I guess it really does two things. First, it shows that you are committed to them and it really shows that you want to work on everything. Second, it gives them and you an opportunity to seek help on the problems of your relationship and helping her deal with the trust issues, hurt, etc.

However, even if we did go to counseling.... I dont know if I could forgive my partner for cheating. 99% sure the relationship would be over. However, you never know until it happens to you.

 

[HalfDead]

I would do that in a heartbeat. Only one problem, she wouldn't go anywhere (not even across the street) with me to save her life. I tell her, I'm not gonna date anyone else, that I'm gonna wait for her, and she tells me "Good, I hope you die a loney Mutha F*****". I even tell her how pretty she looks, and she just walks right pass me, as if I wasn't even there. *shrugs*

 

[Guest]

HD, it has been mentioned a couple of times in this thread, and I believe it to be true, this is going to take some time. Some time in this case may be a euphemism... think 5-15 years, and it is going to be your gamble whether it will work or not.

If she is really worth it, go for it, by all means. In that case, don't get discouraged too easily. She is worth it, sit it out and take the risk.

If you doubt you want to spend this much energy, time and risk in this particular relation... you may as well forget about it. You won't win her back in two weeks.

Personally, I only go for the best. If she is the best, I would gamble my entire life, complete dedication forever, just to hear her say: I love you, when she dies, 80 years from now.

Kind regards

 

[Guest]

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I would gamble my entire life, complete dedication forever, just to hear her say: I love you, when she dies, 80 years from now.

[/ QUOTE ]wow, and I thought I was a hopeless romantic

 

[Guest]

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I even tell her how pretty she looks, and she just walks right pass me, as if I wasn't even there. *shrugs*

[/ QUOTE ]If you think that telling her that she looks pretty is going to have her leaping back into your arms after this, she isn't worth the hassle. Too superficial. If you really want her back, work on it. Apologize every single day. Not multiple times per day mind you that's asking for a restraining order. When she heads to work call her home and leave a message. No direct confrontations yet.

Remember you have done the unthinkable, you told her in no uncertain terms that she wasn't good enough for you.

 

[Guest]

Kelmo, honey, a 6 page thread of this depth in which you have hardly had to intervene!

*applauds for the new Siege community*

We rock!

Kind regards

 

[Guest]

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Kelmo, honey, a 6 page thread of this depth in which you have hardly had to intervene!

*applauds for the new Siege community*

We rock!

Kind regards

[/ QUOTE ]oh ya? umm Tyrfang is a scripter and he hacks too.

There now kelmo can do that mod thing.


*edit*, yes i'm trolling boards. I'm working doing after hours software upgrade. This progress bar is going backwards, I swear.

Thank god for laptops.

 

[HalfDead]

Thank you all for your replies.

 

[Guest]

I don't know if I have any advice...could use some advice as well. I think my significant other is cheating through UO...can't believe it! Game vs. relationship?!!!

 

[Guest]

be glad she isn't banging 6 guys in the backseat of a volkswagon?

 

[imported_Daan Mor]

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I think my significant other is cheating through UO...can't believe it!

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What, like actually using UO like an online dating thing?
I don't think I'd risk it myself, you know what they say MMORPG stands for;
Many Men Online Role Playing Girls
Suppose you could turn up anyway and talk about football or something...