*gives Dola a hug*
I can still remember some of the trials and tribulations we went thru with our kids.. and or teachers or the school or *the system*.
Let's see ah yes first time was a teacher telling me my kid HAD to be dyslexic cuz she was printing her L's, 4's, 7's backwards. I knew my kid but that aside I said...well for one she is a lefty.. and two she is very creative, have you asked her to make her L's 4's and 7's the way you want her to make them ie they *correct way* or ya just happen to see her doodling em backwards cuz she loves doing them that way ? She does that all the time but she CAN do em the way we are supposed to make em..just ask her... oh nooo she MUST BE dyslexic... I go HAVE YU asked her to make em the *proper* way ? ummm nooo...
I said well TRY THAT betcha u see her make em all the way that you want her to DO em. Well she did em the *proper way* saying oh ..your way..ok and did em perfectly. To wit I just laughed and said.......if she WAS dyslexic she could not DO those at all according to your discription of dyslexic sooo um she is not, she is creative and a lefty she loves making em backwards maybe she is anti establishment like her momma but she CAN make em proper like and she just showed ya she could DO that didnt she ? !
Then there was the one that felt my youngest had a speech impediment..till the principal told him...she from up north she is a yankee kindergardener now in the deep south she has no issues she just talks funny like she born up north.
And that was all that it was, a lil yankee girl in Mississippi kindergarden, but that was pretty comic at the time.
The system wanted to put our son on Ridalin at age 6... luckily our pediatrician said not neccessary..the system at school was insisting ..it became the rage in thing at that time every kid was too active couldnt focus could not concentrate so tell all the parents to get their kids on Ridalin. WE REFUSED and so did our pediatrician...now years later they know they OVERDOESED hundreds of kids that should never have been put on that drug. . and we are very glad we refused it was new stuff at that time, sounded more to me like turning my lil boy into some drugged zombie I would have removed him to private school or something anything before making him have to take drugs at 6. The doctor had us remove sugars white flour etc and that was it all that was needed to calm that one down over smart bored with what they were teachin him anyhow back then too slow for him.
soooooooooooooooooo I guess I am glad I always pay attention to my own kids needs or to know them, and sort of not into whatever the system thinks is the right IN thing atm to teach or use on our children for ..educating them. The system can be correct or flat out so off the wall wrong they can do our kids lots of harm if we as parents do not pay attention to what they say/think or feel that...our kids may *need.*
Get kayla what she needs and make sure yu keep fussin for it...for her !
or NOT accept ..whichever ya need to do that is best for her.