Before I give a rationale for ending my contribution to this post, I want to clear something up REAL QUICK about what many mainline denominations believe. Mostly every mainline denomination has Articles of Religion - Roman Catholics, Presbyterians, United Methodists, Episcopalians (Baptists, to my knowledge, do not). The First Article is always about Faith in the Holy Trinity. This is the language found in the United Methodist Church about God's Being - and it comes from an Anglican tradition, which would include Episcopalians and Roman Catholics.
Article I states
There is but one living and true God, everlasting, WITHOUT BODY OR PARTS, of infinite power, wisdom and goodness; the maker and preserver of all things, both visible and invisible. And in unity of this Godhead there are three persons, of one substance, power, and eternity - The Father, The Son, and the Holy Spirit.
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All "Father" means is the Origin of all things created. You can use Mother or Parent - as long as you communicate that there are three persons in one substance. I'm not going to go in depth to this argument.
My point of this is that GOD IS NEITHER HIM NOR HER! God is Spirit. Period. Jesus only referred to God as "Father" relationship-wise, not substance-wise. God never denies our concrete reality. It would be very awkward for Jesus to have called God "Mother" since Mary was his mother. Hear me clear - mostly every religion believes that nothing in this corporeal world can fully and exhaustively explain that which is incorporeal.
I think I am leaving this conversation, because it has become a discussion that strains a gnat and swallows a camel. There are times we have to realize that a dead horse is being beaten- I am not saying Christians do not have a responsibility to defend the truth, but there comes a point in time where one must realize that one has said as much as possible, and then pray that the Holy Spirit will work.