Depending on the character, if I need dexterity, I will use the Boots of Escaping. If I have sufficient dex/stamina, I will use the usually use Mythical Detective of the Royal Guard boots for the +4 Intel. On rare occasions that one of my suits didn't hit a certain resist cap, I would use the +Resist boots for whichever was below 70/75.
Personally, I do not assign much value to Luck. So I don't use the Minax Sandals. I haven't needed to use the Anon/Shanty boots because I typically get the HCI/DCI I need through jewels and the passive warrior's mastery boost. I would suggest using whatever boots will give you the mod you need to hit your caps. If you have enough Swing Speed Increase, that should provide some amount of protection from slowing your swing down if you get cursed - so I wouldn't overcap if you don't really need it.