Wow! what a lot of reading. I'm going to toss out a few things:
1. I attended EM events on only my home shard, RPer 90% of the time, on that character.
2. I am 98% of the time in party with a friend, he's melee, I'm a mage/healer, we still occasionally get drops.
3. Have we sold items, YES, Typically to museum types I know through my alt. who I KNOW will hold on to them and value them. The items we keep directly relate back to our character stories and the like.
4. On my alt I have brokered some deals to sell rare's off shard. First time recipients most of them, the gold received for many has been the largest sum they have ever had in game. They're not greedy, gold hungry
players who complain when they've not received one. They have used their new found wealth to fund character development on their accounts, donated gold to other guilds hosting events. A % of the sale and transfer
has come back to our auction house, which in turn is given away to all those who come to our auction events either in contests, holiday gifts etc. Some of that gold has been used to help support Governor's on our shard.
Painting everyone with the same paint brush isn't fair. I've worked with a lot of folks, rp, some pvp, some collectors. There are good eggs and rotten ones in every group. I have been fortunate enough to be able to call
many of them friends
Do we need a little more variety in how things drop or the manner throughout a year, perhaps. Destroying totally one particular play style isn't the answer. The gold that rare's collectors spread around CAN make a huge difference in the enjoyment some get from game. A Clickie for some events would be warranted, based on perhaps how directly it relates to the shard as opposed to a global or multi shard story arch. For example if Our GL team, hosts a unique event related to the history and lore of Great lakes, then perhaps that item should be a shard bound clickie! If the event is say more global and common to all shards then by all means the drop rate should be lower and they should be mobile. Currently some events are Felucca allowing "reds" the chance to do things, and I think maybe that % might need to go up an event or two over the course of a year, most of us expect Fel fights and events to be like WWE lots of smack talk, highly charged, etc.
I think the looting rights system can work in many cases, clickie system in others, maybe adding something where being in party or group increases chances for the group, a mix depending on the theme and location of the event.
We want to build community, not tear us apart.