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Unless my settings have somehow become messed up, I can be PMed here anytime. I am also in Stratics' IRC #burningsea (and #siege-perilous), pretty much 24/7 - and failing either of those, I can be reached at:
dor at stratics dot com
My apologies - I do not use any other instant-message programs. :-\
*goes off to double-check forum settings*