Actually getting raided and killed is a part of the game, its ok. Actually happened only once, when I was naive to pker(s). No real harm done.
Frankly I don't mind getting raided, I just keep on playing. But as part of my priciples I will never raid anyone. PVP is a very respectable part of the game, PK is the person who enjoys playing the villain, and that is ok. It is part of the game and as far as I know it is legal.
No I was just curious, if it is the Oriental shards etc..