You can always try what I do when the wife does things like that. I shout my demands and immediately duck behind my kids and use them as a shield, then give in and go along with what she wants to do. This allows me to keep my man-card while keeping the wife happy. If you don't have kids to shield you, you can always use pets or friends. Worst case scenario, shout your demands with an immediate "I am sorry, I was out of line. Whatever you want to do is fine with me!" and you should still be able to walk out alive. I hope this helps!!