Both newborn and mom are home now, & doing ok, not counting the hormone crash that 'my' baby is having

while her mother-in-law is stayin there, underfoot, helping out for [4 full wks.]
I will get to hug them, and provide 'silly fun times', when *I* get to go up there,
being the nuttier more laidback, mon/grandma, that I am.
I agree Bruce 2 should be plenty, when ya think ahead to 2 kids to buy maybe dental braces for, 2 kids to insure as newb drivers, 2 highschool graduations to pay for, class rings, etc. etc. cuz kids get lots more expensive for us, as teenagers.
Course in my own case, I got 2 kids [one of each gender] at the get go first time around.
I just wanted to know what it feels like to HUG and LOVE only ONE baby at a time, like normal folks,
get to do.

So I went for trying one more pregnancy, and hoped to God that it was only ONE baby that time ! *it was.* Tis baby girl makin me the grandma.
I may have 'traumatised' the first borns more, with my *PLANNED parenthood sermons* always sayin to my own 3 kids, as they were preteens and teens, you each may posssess the TWIN GENE too, do 'not' make me a grandma too soon or your one baby oopsy, just might be 2 at a time. The older twins, are still chicken, to try for having 'a' child.
Some parents will keep tryin and tryin though, til they maybe get both genders of kids, but 2 is plenty $$$$ to afford downline be they boys only, or girls only, or one of each !
My sister in law had kept on trying for a girl, ended up with 4 sons and then finally, hung it up.
A couple at my church kept trying for a son but, got 5 daughters, then said forget it !