It's been a week. If you have a way of getting in touch with "Postman" (is that Spellbreaker?) please do.
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This is bad game design.
This should not have been put into the hands of players, because players can quit, make a house private, or die.
We need a real fix for this problem because it recurs.
*slightly edited to remove excessive badmouthing of one of the Dev team