Current: (including skills on jewelry)
120 swords, tact, anat, chiv
100 parry, necro,
90 resisit.
I will occasionally swap out either parry or resist for bush. Either way, I basically never parry, since I roll with a shield.
Without necro, I can just take resist to 120 (useful against the really high end casters/necros), and run less skills on jewelry.
I choose to go without bushido, because I don't really see that it helps. Most things have slayer, so slayer + EoO is good enough for damage output.
I am not quite as good as a Sammy at damage avoidance, but it's not really that much an issue. Plus, I find that the 1000 imbue points from a 1h weapon + shield works better for me than 600 from a 2h weapon.
Before reforge, this was not the case, I would say, because there was really only DCI that's really useful to put on a shield.
My shield gives me: 10 SSI, 25DI, 4 stam, 2 dex. If I wanted to keep trying, I know I can roll 10 ssi, 30 di, and 5 HCI (done it on TC)... then I imbue with 15 DCI.
This way I can either not put DI on jewelry, or I can put there, and whetstone off weapons.
I've been planning to make a new suit of armor that is part metal, part studded, part woodland, that I refine to have 75 phy and 75 fire but just been too lazy.