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Constructive vs. Destructive Criticism
I stole this from another website and i think it's worth reading at this time. I know it's long but I think it's a valuable lesson that we should all use before we hit the submit reply button when posting.
As follows:
I would like, today, to discuss the difference between constructive and destructive criticism (which some people may consider flaming). It came to my mind a couple of days ago and I jotted the idea down and decided to write a short editorial on the subject. I wasn't really sure what people knew or thought about criticism, so I thought that it would be worthwhile to give my point of view on the subject.
To me, that small difference between constructive and destructive criticism is extremely significant. Why is it important? The difference between the two is salient because, in order to give proper feedback on other people's work, one needs to be able to distinguish between the two forms of criticism. It is important (or I think it is important) because it applies to every form of art. So, you want to be a critic? Then you should know what you're talking about, and know how to give feedback.
The first point I need to make is that feedback does not necessarily have to be positive. Constructive criticism does not mean praise; you don't need to tell somebody that their work is fantastic if you think otherwise. Contrastly, you don't need to tell them that their work is horrible. This is where the difference between the two really comes in.
Constructive criticism entails telling people how to improve rather than simply shooting their work down. Rather than saying that everything is wrong, or even simply pointing out the things that are wrong, point out what needs to change and how they could improve the piece. If you want to spend your time criticizing a photo, make sure that you are knowledgeable enough or dedicated enough to not just point out mistakes, but suggest ways to improve those mistakes. Otherwise, what good is your comment? Without the constructive basis for the critique, all you've done is deliberately belittled somebody's work. If you want to point out something that you think is wrong with a piece, explain why you think it is wrong, and then give your suggestions for correcting it or improving future works.
What is destructive criticism, then? It is simply criticizing and pointing out mistakes without taking the time to suggest ways of improvement. It is degrading; it shoots down somebody's work unnecessarily, and unless you are willing to show that person a way to improve, then [in my mind] you really have no right to point out mistakes at all.
So, when you are posting a critique or even just a comment, keep in mind that you are not to simply there to shoot down their work. What purpose does that serve other than to stroke your own ego? There is a line in the sand between destructive criticism/flaming and constructive criticism, and it has been outlined above, so remember to be constructive rather than destructive when discussing somebody else's work.