Ok, to make a stealth tamer basically you pick the taming template you want, then slot in 100 hiding and whatever stealth skill will squeeze in. If you need to use skill items for stealth, they're fairly plentiful so you should find it fairly straightforward.
So, what basic template to start with? Well, you need to consider what you're going to do with the tamer and your choice of playstyle. Also, if it's your first and only tamer, you probably don't want to make a really specialised template which can only blossom in limited situations.
The template I run as a stealther is my main go-anywhere one. It's designed for taming as well as PvM and if necessary, PvP too. You don't need to have the full 120 in taming skills, I'd actually recommend you try with 110 or so and divide the rest of the skill between your magery and stealth skill.
120 taming
120 lore
120 vet
100 magery
100 hiding
100 herding/eval or med (soulstone swapping ftw)
60 in stealth + items as necessary
It's not an uber gimplate template, but it works very nicely. You can add any expensive gear or whatever as you want, but it really isn't necessary IMHO. I like it for taming new pets and scouting, and if a group of PvPers try to set about me, it's very nice for avoiding the dirt nap and making a clean getaway. I can fight if I want too, but it's entirely optional
Wenchy
unless your pvp tamer is also your main tamer you do not need 120s..
110 taming 30 skill on jewlery + 5 on the tali to bring to 115 for stable slots
110 lore 20 skill on jewlery + 5 on tali to bring to 115 for stable slots
will control everything but a bane dragon i think 100% of the time.
80 vet is fine to res your pet, you wont be vetting it.. most of the time you tell it to attack someone and stealth off.. being a pvp tamer is more of defense then offense.. unless your going with one of those pvp fighter temps.. but those dont have stealth.
100 stealth is too much, you only need 80
100 hiding
100 magery will beable to cast invis 100% of the time.. what else you casting?
my stealth tamer has necro and spirit speak.
so here is my temp.. pvp human char,
lots of hp+ and mana + he has 45 dci 40 lmc, all 70s
255 stats
like 130 hp, 160 mana, 30 dex
you cant really 1v1 pvp but why would you want to with a stealth tamer?
80 taming 30 on jewelery + 5 tali (115)
90 lore 20 on jewelery + 5 tali (115)
80 vet
90 magery 10 on jewelery (100)
100 hiding
80 stealth
100 necro
100 spirit speak
your jewelery will be like
15 taming
10 lore
5 magery
8 lmc
15 dci
thats 499/500
the only arty i used is the folded steel glasses.. its 15 dci, plus good resists.
imbue suit with
lmc, hp+ mana+ and lrc + 1 resist
you can do it right you will get all 70s, with 40 lmc, like 40 mana and i think 20 hp+ and 100 lrc.
its kinda a gimp pvp template, but pretty good.. hard to kill..
you can trade necro/ss for mystic/focus, med/eval.. whatever..