Well Stratics stance is:
C. Scammer Accusations
When you get scammed, often your first reaction is to warn others so that it doesn't happen to them too. Although you have good intentions, we ask that you do not post anything about who scammed you as these accusations are really just one posters word against another. UO allows for many chars on the same shard to have the same name, so you could inadvertently spoil an honest persons reputation. Or someone could post that someone they disliked was a scammer and ruin their reputation when it is not true.
Personally i say post users contact info IE: icq#/aim# ,however u guys spoke to arrange trade since that would be unique to that user and not based on stratics multi-name. Some trade sites do have a scammer list (not sure i can even list site with Stratics regulations) but at this time Stratics doesn't post scammer lists. But since I dont make the rules I would follow section C above
Sorry to hear about your bad trade . . . been there done that