Very, very, very well put, Duskofdead. My first run in UO was exactly similar to your description of post-T2A (played from beta until probably 6-9 months after T2A came out). I am now closing in on the second year of my second return, and I must say that I *still* am uncomfortable with how very much item-based this game has become. It's frustrating and I try to overlook it, but I am well aware that if I choose to ignore things like Hit Chance Increase (oh, to go back to the days of Supremely Accurate Krysses of Vanquishing!), I am less likely to be "successful" in this game, and will never be able to participate in high end encounters as I would like to some day.
I must also say that the two times that I've returned have been for the same reasons:
1. The vast number of possibilities within the game. Being able to completely customize your character's life (house/attire/vocation/etc) is an amazing thing that is truly unmatched by any other MMORPG on the market, even to this day, imnsho. I absolutely love that I can build my own house, decorate it the way I want, and hire vendors to sell the things I make while I go out fishing for a couple of hours.
2. The sense of community. While the current population on shards is nothing less than pathetic compared to the UO that I remember and love, and while everyone that I played with for years in the past have now moved on to other things, the majority of the people that I've met during this return back to the game are the type of folks that drew me to this game in the first place.
While I would love to experience a "beautiful" UO, I think that your description of the current gaming scene is absolutely correct. I miss the hustle and bustle of busy banks, but I do not miss the dumb kids (er, I guess I was a kid when I started playing this game.. now 30, augh!), even if they mostly just made me laugh.
As an aside, I was on vacation recently and was showing UO to a friend of mine who is an avid gamer. I was showing him, with great disgust, how awful UO's version of 3d looks. I then loaded 2d up to show him how much more crisp and beautiful it actually is in comparison to the muddy, fuzzy, wannabe 3d that KR is. He then looked at
me in disgust. "You really think THAT looks good?" he asked. I guess fond memories can do much to cloud a person's judgement.
