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Well I did because he was a guy. To polite, gentlemanly and got swamped by the ladies.
Being female, I had no idea what to do, so, Professor James disappeared.
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I'm having this problem now with my male sim... I don't want to hurt the lady's feelings, but sheesh...... no breathing room! All I want to do is play the game, not run around ducking behind bookcases....
I like my male sim and don't want to delete him. Trouble is, my brother played him while we were on holidays and who knows what he got (my sim) up to, lol.
Gentlemen, I need some advice from a man's point of view on how to let them down easy. Some people seem to take this game a little too seriously, I think.
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I'm not a man, but I have a point of view. I think it might help to put in your male sim's bio that (1) "sorry ladies, but I have a boyfriend," or (2) taken in s/l. Or something like that. I think boundaries need to be set, and ones that you can stick to when reminding players you are not interested in romance.