Mona, its hard for many because this game was a part of so many peoples routines for so long.
I feel sad for those who take it so hard even though it was inevitable.
There are fun games out there.
SL was never really my cup of tea. I'm not very creative as far as creating custom things are and sometimes I feel that that is the main driving point for SL. To me SL was like TSO with better graphics and none of the busy work that made us feel like we were doing something (like skilling or bot factory)
They do have mini games and such so that can keep one entertained for a while. Making money is not easy if you don't create, so you will have to visit an ATM.
I know that I've said this elsewhere but, I've been playing WoW since July/August. I adore it.
The one thing I like about WoW is you actually have to play to do things.
You can't just plop your character somewhere and let them skill. You actually have to interact with things to gain skills in professions. That was a huge difference coming from TSO.
I was never a blood and gore girl. I never thought I'd enjoy PVP either, but I do.
City of Heroes is also pretty cool. Who doesn't like being a super hero (or a villain > : ) )
I also have been meaning to try EQII but I don't have the time. I hear its incredible.
There are tons of games out there that will entertain you. I like to think TSO was rather unique so I'm not sure you will find that again.
But the TSO experience was so worth it. I met ppl I actually love (and I rly don't love a lot of ppl) and it was my gateway drug to online gaming addictions.