Unless you're PvP'ing I wouldn't bother with Wrestling, just Mage Weapon.
Everything after 110 Tame, 110 Lore is optional. Personally never been a fan of using Eval on Tamers, would rather use the mana for healing, or other types of offense.
Tamer builds I use/have used that have been really powerful:
Vamp Form, Swords, 4/6 Chiv (for spawns)
4/6 Ninja, Mage (for everything, especailly things that heal as you can use Serpent Form and Mage Weapon, also for mount speed with 5 pets, also for tanking in Dog Form while using frenzy/hell hound packs)
Discord/Mage/(No Vet) (for Doom, but also everything)
Peace/Mage/(No Vet) (for Luck suit)
If relying on spells for healing pets then I'd also reccomend making the suit Protection proof (84 Physical resist), for times when you're around stuff with auras or Necros.
Probably forgetting some.