Disarm is the one that needs to be addressed if you ask me. At the moment as a mage you cannot play a char with a mage weapon. Almost all dexxers are going to try to disarm first since they expect it from everyone. Where I play it's all dexxers and disarm archers. Parry becomes the way to go on my server, but the problem I have is not adapating, it's the lack of template diversity. I like when you can go into a fight and have 12 different kinds of templates to fight, not the same 3 or 4. I like when you can pick any guy to pvp with and have a decent chance at winning.
As for dismount, does that even matter with splinter weapon? Splinter is going to become standard procedure, I can see the llama forming away being annoying but if they can't run what does it matter?
I'm curious what the problem with bolas is? Is it because you can teleport while throwing one? Why should you be able to parry a bola? I like that it allows anyone the OPTION to dismount. It does 1 dmg and removes all items from your hands. I don't see how this is unfair..it's actually more like a wrestling special since without a weapon in your hand how are you defending yourself from being hit?
I also really like balinor's idea, put a poll up and let the killers choose.