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i dont have an electronic arts listed on my start menu. the only place it appears is in windows explorer under "all programs". there is no place where i can choose what resolution to start the game at.
i should be more clear, i dont want to play ea-land i want to play the sims online in 1024x768
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EA Land and The Sims Online are the same game. EA Land is the huge city that the production cities will all be merged into. Once the merges are complete, the game will no longer be known as "The Sims Online" but rather "EA Land".
If the EA Land folder shows up in Windows Explorer, then you should also be able to locate it by going into My Computer and following the directory path opening the folders until you locate the EA Land file. Not precisely relevant to your problem, but it seemed like you were thinking they are two separate games, when in actuality they're not. It's just a matter of whether you want to access production city sims, EA Land sims or TC3 sims. Once the merges happen, the only choices will be EA Land sims or TC3 sims, with whatever sims you had in the production cities now showing up in the EA Land slots, provided you didn't have more than 4 EA Land sims to an account.