MODIFIED: Please read it all!!!! Started out as a rant of no honor and turned into a lesson of faith...
This is how the original post started: If you have NO HONOR.... join SL... I made a solo, underskilled thief raid on them.... died once, suit was insured came back to me no problem. Got out of loss went back and died, dropped entire suit... EVERY SINGLE PIECE and before you ask, yes, I am an experienced faction player, several million insurance in her bank ... yes several 100 thousand in gold, not checks and yes every piece was insured.
I went back and asked if I may have my suit back (a standard consideration between most faction players when something like this happens) to be told no. When asked why, I was told "you are the jerk stealing our sigils". I said, it is part of the game .... and was told, yes, we win...
This is where it all changed: I went to luna to try to find more armor, etc. and ran into one of the SL I thought had my armor. After a bit of bantering back and forth, he said he did not have my armor and go to yew gate to meet the player who did have it. Ok, that sounded like a trap to me but like he said, I was already naked and he even offered to give me insurance money. So being old, slow and trusting I went to yew gate where indeed I was given back everything but leggings (shadow dancers). Returned to Luna where player #1 (Saint) sent me back to yew gate to get the shadow dancers... at this time, I haven't received them as I didn't see the player he told me to meet.
My apologies again to Saint for suspecting him of keeping my armor and my thanks to Rohon for returning all but the shadow dancers. To the other player who has the dancers, if I may have them back, it would be appreciated. I will not assume the worst of you as Saint and Rohon proved my quick assumption to be completely wrong. Thank you Saint and Rohon for facilitating the return of my armor.