After you get that cu sidhe to gm wrestling,... get it in combat with ANYTHING and parry will show up. I got hit by a zombie and it triggered parry gains.. then i took it right away and trained parry to gm in 20 minutes on a bunch of random mobs... just attack em then all stop attack then all stop attack then all stop till you have 20 things attacking it. then say all follow me and use consume damage and u wont need to heal it at all will gm parry in 20 min. (dont forget to whisper for skill gain)