You can only have one of these going at a time - Confidence, Evasion and Counter Attack.
Keeping Counter Attack up as much as possible and use your weapons special moves, is how we do it.
When your taking damage you can either opt for Confidence or Evasion. Generally we save Evasion till we are pretty low in HP's since its not possible to keep it up all the time.
Bushido + Parry shines when using a whirlwind weapon as you get damage bonuses based on how many mobs are surrounding your character.
Bushido + Parry makes it possible to block with your melee weapon without a shield. Shield isn't helpful with this combo. 2 handed melee weapons block ratio is higher then a 1 handed melee weapons.
Honor is very helpful for doing additional damage to mobs you have honored. Only one player can honor a mob and it has to be um-damaged.
Good Macros
Select Nearest + Attack Selected + Whirlwind
Select Next + Attack Selected
With first macro you can pull the WW skill out of your book and when you activate the skill it will turn red. When its no longer Red, use the Macro again. Spaming the second macro will cause all the mobs to start walking to you.
Hope that was helpful,