Yeah those are all things I've thought before.I don't know their reason.
I've heard a dozen reasons from a dozen interpretations.
But here's my translation (I feel the same way at times):
I'm bored. I haven't seen (name certain people) in about eight months. I'm leaving.
Here's the funny bit.
After the Stygian Abyss opened up, people came back to UO for a bit. When they started leaving, the remaining people said, "It's just fall, people are going back to school... it happens every year."
When Christmas rolled around, more people left (including most of PGoH and all of B*DI). The remaining people said, "It's the Holiday season. It's just a slump, happens every year."
Then spring sprung, more people moved on to other things. Some of those who left at Christmas gave word about their wanting-to-but-not-actually coming back. The very few people left over said, "Spring is here, people want to get outside and enjoy the spring weather. It's just a slump. It happens every year."
Now its summer. More people are leaving, but the people who left last Fall, Winter and Spring haven't come back.
Now my question is...
Is it still a slump? (Or is slump just a euphemism for wishful thinking?)
I never really had that problem for the first eight years only really missed a few people that I did things with I remember a guy named "deer head man" that was funny he played a lot with my brother back when we shared my current account.I think a lot of it has to do with a domino effect. Most of us play the game due to the strong bonds and friendships we form with people over the years. Over time those friends leave, making the game less and less fun. One person goes followed by two more etc. etc. etc. until eventually a large chunk of people have left.
The other big factor is people are moving off to other more populated servers. More people, new faces, new friendships to make and little to come home to.
It is a sad thing. Some of it is real life busyness but I doubt that is the main cause.
YesSo does that mean folks should start building a cage to keep you in Scarst?
But.... but.... *points to halo* Seeeeee?*looks an Giggles.*
And here I have been believing you to be such a sweet little thing.
That's not a halo that's a Funyun.But.... but.... *points to halo* Seeeeee?
SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Its suppose to be a secret.That's not a halo that's a Funyun.
I miss role play.
Ewwww that was like 3 years old and on the floor Va'lis.
Ok I just had flashbacks to the bacon cheese slices used at our July 4th BBQ... not the best invention even though everything is supposed to be better with bacon!Ewwww that was like 3 years old and on the floor Va'lis.
If I can survive that bacony hamburger with pizzas as buns...I can survive anything.
yep... the, yepIt's avoidance thinking trying to keep themselves from thinking people are actually leaving.
I think some of us just miss our old friends. Makes sense, right?We have had three members return within the last 2 months that had both been gone for over a year each. We also have guilded three people that have left their "high population" shards to come to Catskills for three very different reasons. From our legendary RP, always eventful PVP, our outstanding EMs (I travel to a lot of other EM events on other shards, trust me, we're blessed with who we have as EMs), and last but not least our ever helpful community: Catskills might not be the most populous, but we are by far one of the best places to call home in UO.
There's nothing we can do to control the longevity of this game outside of continually subscribing, but we can be good advertisements for UO ourselves by inviting people to play and discover it. Posting negative portrayals of the status of UO won't help nearly as much as engaging our community with ideas that could keep us all interested and involved. For example, my guild has taken up what is more commonly a RP concept, a player run town, and we are building onto and around a group of 5 houses that have been on Cats since it's inception. This has been ALOT of fun and continues to be a daily source of activity for my members.
For me, I still love UO and Catskills and will keep working to make my small corner of this world flourish.