Lol, more trolls in your last 4 posts to this thread than you'd be likely to see in Level 3 Despise there.
Still, since you claim to have been a councillor, and I have no reason at all to doubt your veracity on that claim, I guess you're speaking from an experience and understanding few of the rest of us would share.
However, in reference to Cymorils quote, that you seem to have passed over, I believe that was taken from the UO KB, in fact the same article that Pet quoted in the OP.
I tend to think that a statement made by EA as quoted by both Petrify and Cymoril, albeit different parts of the same article, would/should/can/does satisfy anyone's queries at the use of such "tools" in the game. And that would be even moreso for one such as yourself who clearly has long standing and profound understanding of the game and it's rules.
Anyway, in case you missed it...here's the complete article again, and I believe UO Wedding, as well as many other programs such as UO Bod, UO Rudder, UOA Translator, UO Vendor and others...all listed on the UO.Stratics.Com main page are covered by the EA statement, as per the section I have highlighted below:
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From EA Customer Support:
QUESTION
Which 3rd Party Programs can I use with UO?
Only these programs are permitted to be used with UO. If you don't see a program listed here, it is not approved for use with UO.
* UOAssist: Website - Details
* UO Auto-Map: Website - Details
* UO Calculator: Website - Details
* UO Curse Tool: Website - Details
* UO Journal Converter: Website - Details
* UO Magic Tool: Website - Details
* UO Spawn Map: Website - Details
These products were created, and are marketed and distributed by individual authors under license from Electronic Arts, Inc. Electronic Arts HAS NOT TESTED THESE PRODUCTS IN ANY WAY WHATSOEVER AND DOES NOT KNOW WHETHER THEY WORK IN ANY OR ALL REASONABLY FORESEEABLE SITUATIONS OR THAT THEY WILL NOT CAUSE DAMAGE IN SOME REASONABLY FORESEEABLE SITUATIONS. The individual author solely warrants that these products will work as intended to your reasonable expectations, and does not infringe anyone's intellectual property rights.
Electronic Arts has not checked the source code for any of these programs. Electronic Arts will not be held responsible for anything that should happen to your account or computer as a result of using these programs. Electronic Arts does not support these programs. If you have problems with them, please contact the author of the program directly. Use at your own risk.
Programs such as ICQ, AIM, UO Trace, <font color=blue>or any other program that runs independently of UO, and has no effect on the UO data stream or software are generally ok to use.</font>
We are frequently asked about programs such as Multi-UO and some programs that automate macros in the game. Again, if it is not in the approved list of UO Pro programs, then it is not ok to use with UO.
We are not currently accepting submissions to the Third Party Affiliate Program.
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Hopefully UO Stratics as well as many other players interpretation of these rules is in the same general spirit that the answer given by EA conveys.
Still, I can't help but think that you know that already, and you just made those 4 replies to this thread to get a few bites...or maybe just to bump your own post count. I've never heard of anyone having action taken against there account for using any of the applications mentioned by Stratics, have you?
Anyway, I think there may be sufficient "grey area" there to warrant further investigation on all these utilities, so I'll post to UOHall and hopefully get an even more definitive and up-to-date answer from someone like Jeremy or Robert from EA Mythic, just to be sure. No-one would want to be unintentionally breaking the rules now, would they?