On The Defiler, I run:
120 Throwing
120 Juking
120 Bobbing and weaving
120 Intimidation
120 Awesomeness
120 Drinking with Zath
(I sometimes stone off Drinking with Zath for 120 Asskicking, situation dependent)
For this template you need a good suit. Try to imbue as much flash as possible, with max pimpness and a full set of Chinese beads.
So, to summarize, 120 in Throwing, Chivalry, Healing, Anatomy, Tactics, Resisting Spells. I haven't maxed out Chiv and healing yet, about 110 on each.
You need a good suit though. When fighting I'm above 180 stam for the swing speed bump and max hci and di. Honestly, sampires lay out more damage than me all day long, which is why I'm building one of those. But this guy, this guy can do ok.